I’m starting this blog in bed and not having showered for a couple of days! I must admit im not sure this is the way you start a blog nor think i have the confidence to do this. But my mother is telling me to jump in with both feet. A little history. You know what? I’m not going to give you any history. That will come as this blog grows and develops. Let me tell you where im at now; the present. My wife and i are working to get back together. I know the people who know me and sue are like here we go again!! However there isn’t going to be an again and it starts with me and this blog. A little insight to me. I have been terrible low-down husband to my wife. Done things im ashamed of nor as I put it isn’t even remotely in my character, but us men and women are all human. Human as in mistakes, imperfections, lack of quailty etc. We’ve been separated, divorce pending for well over a year and been married only 2 years. Heavy I know. It does get heavier as everything goes along. She has been living her life and I have been living mine. Our husband and wife; mother and father paths crossed a lot of times but still living in our own world. The time we have been separated I do not with all my heart regret. She has grown and I have grown; our love for ourselves and each other evolved. The critical time apart and drama helped us find ourselves. Even when we thought we really knew ourselves. Her and I are still growing and I embrace that fully.
Basically I want this blog to help other fathers, husbands learn from what garbage ive done and I too can learn as I go along we your help how to be a better husband and maintain being a good father.
The wives and mothers can also learn a little about us!
Feel free to make comments, ask questions, submit suggestions on any of the topic brought up or the stories I have or about to tell.
Thank you for reading and continue reading!!
People shop for a bathing suit with more care than they do a husband or wife. The rules are the same. Look for something you’ll feel comfortable wearing. Allow for room to grow.